“It will take as long as it takes. In the meantime, be kind to yourself.”
My orientation is Third Wave Cognitive-Behavioral.
The aim of therapeutic treatment is not only to reduce symptoms, but to reach a greater and more flexible range of alternatives from which to benefit when mental distress occurs.
Interventions are based on
- acceptance, openness to experience, making room for emotions, even the most difficult ones
- awareness and appreciation of one's own strengths
The goal is to understand the processes, i.e. the underlying ways of thinking that keep the resulting negative emotion activated.
The final objective is to increase psychological flexibility, to become aware and open to new experiences, acting in the direction of one's values and a life worth living. All third wave therapies are largely supported by scientific studies which attest to their effectiveness on specific groups of clinical populations. In fact, there are numerous literature studies from which it is possible to infer the numerous benefits reported in clinical practice.
In particular, I use
I intervene on the cognitive processes that maintain negative emotions, that is, that series of repetitive and recursive thoughts such as brooding, rumination, which lead to focusing attention on the specific problem and which become the cause of the suffering itself.
Adults: for anxiety disorders, mood disorders (depression), relationship difficulties, existential crises.
Children and teenagers: relationship difficulties with friends; aggression; dependencies on new technologies; discomfort with gender identity, in affectivity.
For communication difficulties, chronic conflicts, couples who are thinking about separation, I apply the Gottman Spouses Method, the only one that can boast a truly scientific approach to treatment. Decades of research have led the Gottmans to identify the elements necessary to make relationships last. During the course, the couple has the opportunity to better understand the areas of difficulty and strengths, to compare themselves by learning to use re-educational techniques of assertive communication, stress and conflict management, relaxation, strengthening of listening and emotional intelligence.
In particular for girls and women with emotional dependency problems, entangled in dysfunctional relationships. I apply the DipendiAmo® Method Protocol: (Gritti, MC, 2018); The validity and effectiveness of the treatment based on the protocol has been recognized by the International Scientific Committee of the Academy of Family Psychotherapy. Therapy groups aim to develop awareness of the origins of psychological suffering and the mechanisms of love addiction.
The therapeutic activities and tools used aim to break the cycle of addiction so that patients can regain control over their emotional world.
Many interventions will be aimed at addressing the abandonment anxieties that erupt in the lives of employees.
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flavia@flaviacristofolini.it
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25122 Brescia, Italy